How To Give A Good Blow Job: 8 Tips For The Best Blowjob

How To Give A Good Blow Job: 8 Tips For The Best Blowjob

1. Take a comfortable position

On average, men reach orgasm in three to five minutes, so you do not have to worry about your comfort. But finding a position that you both love is always worth it.

As a general rule, it is easier for a woman to kneel (having put a pillow or blanket under knees, if everything happens on the floor). The partner can stand or sit on the edge of the bed in order to lean back.

An added benefit of this position is a good overview for a man. To make the show even more spicy, move to the mirror. Both of you can look in it, of course.

2. Start right

Most of the men I had talked to said they did not like long preludes. Some even reported that they felt embarrassed or ticklish.

Of course, you can warm up a man before a blow job, but do it quickly. Try stroking it with your tongue or fingers through his underwear or touching the penis, asking what your partner would like.

If a man does not stay alert, take advantage of it as soon as you undress. Take all his penis in your mouth and stroke with your tongue until his penis is enlarged (this is perhaps the only time you will succeed such a maneuver, so enjoy it!). After an erection, slowly lick the penis from the base to the head.

3. Master the basic technique

After the preludes – the main part? No, you must first make the penis wet. To do this, move it in your mouth up and down several times, pressing firmly against the tongue. Try to collect and use the maximum saliva and do not worry if it runs down – it’s even for the best. But watch your teeth: they should not participate in the process!

Now that preparation is complete, start using your hand with your mouth.

For most people, the mouth is not big enough to hold a medium-sized penis, so the hand is your main assistant.

The best option: use your hand to stimulate the body of the penis and your mouth for the head. Keep in mind that the trunk is not as sensitive as other intimate male zones, so do not be afraid to squeeze it very hard. The head, on the contrary, is very sensitive, so a warm, moist mouth is the most important thing for it.

And now the technique. Tighten the penis firmly in your hand, put your lips to the head and imagine that these two parts of your body are connected. Then start going up and down the penis for a few minutes. This is a standard technique to which you can return during the blow job.

4. Pay attention to the testicles

One often unfairly forgets about the scrotum. Do not make this mistake. After entering the rhythm with the basic technique, proceed to the next step.

Take the testicles in your free hand. Remember: they are sensitive, so you need to find the optimal degree of pressure. Light pressure will make a man feel ticklish, and a rough squeeze will cause pain. Stroke the scrotum with your fingers while still doing the blow job. Gently pinch the skin between the testicles with your thumb and an index finger and try to move your fingers from the base of the penis down.

Then stroke this area with your mouth, continuing to stimulate the penis with your hand. Lick the testicles, take them in your mouth, move your tongue between them, from the back of the scrotum to the front.

5. Do not forget the prostate

Anus and prostate are, of course, at the top of the list of the most ignored zones. For many heterosexual men, their stimulation is a rough taboo. And this is a big mistake! Nevertheless, before invading the holy of holies, get obvious permission from your partner.

If the guy does not accept the anal caress, try to stimulate his crotch. It responds better to pressure – you can use your knuckles for that.

If the partner is ready for anal games, the first thing you need is a silicone-based lubricant. Lubricate your index finger and gently tense the anus. A slight press is enough to penetrate inside. If the partner starts to move his hips toward your hand, slowly push your finger deeper. You must penetrate to a depth of only a few centimeters, then gently move your finger back and forth.

When you master this technique, try to reach the golden blow job standard: one finger in the anus, the other fingers of this hand caress the scrotum, the other hand and the mouth – the penis. Instant orgasm guaranteed.

6. Explore other methods

Once you understand the basic technique, move to experiments. Different men love different things – find out what attracts yours.

Here are some examples:

• Tap the base of the penis with your tongue while continuing to stimulate the trunk and head with your hand.
• Pay special attention to the bridle – this area is particularly sensitive for many men. Caress it with your tongue pointed up and down and side to side, or try to suck it.
• Continue to stimulate the penis with your hand and caress the head only with your lips.
• Add circular movements with a hand to the basic technique.
• Gently tap the penis on the tongue. So you can let your jaw rest a bit.
• For a longer break, use your lips, face and chest (you can simply rub them on the penis).
• The alternative is to alternate manual and oral stimulation.

Do not try to use all the tips at once. To begin, apply a couple and ask your partner what he liked, or just watch his reaction.

7. Finish correctly

Eternal controversy: to swallow or not to swallow? What can you say here? If you cannot really stand the sperm, place napkins near the bed to get rid of it inconspicuously. Another option is to let the sperm run down the penis when you take it out of the mouth.

But think carefully. What do you feel if your partner immediately after cunnilingus runs to brush his teeth?

Of course, genital fluids are not tongue breakers, but we are talking about a fast tiny piece. And in general, tastes change …

8. Love the blow job

The main advice to be drawn from this article is that enthusiasm makes blow job incredible. There is nothing better for a partner than knowing that you enjoy his penis.

A great way to express your enthusiasm is to initiate the blow job. Surprise your man when he wakes up or enters the house. Say you want to bring him pleasure when you watch a cool series or dine at a restaurant.

Keep this mood throughout the process. Moan. Look in his eyes and smile. Take the penis out of your mouth and stroke it with your body. Say how good you feel.

You will become a blow job guru when you really fall in love with it. And it is actually very simple: it is so cool to control someone’s pleasure completely.

Written by Gvibe.