Tips For “Doggy Style” Sex Lovers

Needless to say, we all have specific sex positions that we favor more than other ones, and for a great deal of people one of those positions happens to be doggy style. Animalistic, a tiny bit wild, and SO hot!

It seems to be one of the simplest poses in sex, however in reality there is lots of things you may not yet be aware about when it comes to doggy style. Ahead, await the most honest, useful, and important pieces of advice about your beloved position!

Find your perfect pose

Discovering the ideal position is key to mind blowing sex. Surely, some may get confused, because doggy style is believed to be practiced in only a single way. But luckily for some, if not all, there’s numerous ways to modify doggy style sex.

You don’t actually have to be on all fours with your partner behind you on their knees. Instead, you can be standing on the floor, with your upper body leaning over the side of a couch or a bed, with your partner standing behind you. Plenty of women find it to be their favorite way of altering doggy style, as bending over the side of a piece of furniture allows for extra support for their upper bodies, which in its turn helps prevent getting worn out too quickly. 

Another way to change up doggy style, is standing on your knees, and lying down on the bed with your elbows bent. Now, some may feel that it would be uncomfortable to do so, but fortunately, any old pillows will come in handy when you’re at it. Just place as many pillows under your belly as you need, and they will give you the extra support, just like in the case with the side of a couch or bed.

Bring in some intimacy

Besides choosing the most comfortable position, you and your partner should invest some time in creating the ideal setting for yourselves. This means romanticizing things a bit, since doggy style isn’t exactly the most romantic position in sex. 

Some couples, to add intimacy, bring out a mirror. It has been reported, that when using a mirror they were able to look each other in the eyes, which added the sensitivity that’s present in positions like missionary, but is lacked in doggy style. Another way to add some romance to doggy style sex, is lighting candles, and dimming the lights. In addition, a few wine glasses and some nice soft tunes won’t hurt anyone either!

Keep in mind certain precautions

Aside from the obvious safety measures that need to be taken during sex, (condoms, or plan B) you need to consider ways to make doggy style as safe for yourselves as possible. So many guys enjoy doggy style, not only because of the view, but also in light of the fact that it allows for deeper penetration. But is it completely harmless for their partners?

Well, doggy style can’t do any bad damage, but it can be more or less painful, especially if the receiver isn’t fully aroused. To avoid any unnecessary pain or discomfort, treat yourselves to a certain amount of foreplay. When both of you are ready, you can go ahead and get it on, however consider lube to be another useful precaution to make the experience as pleasant for the both of you as possible.

Perk things up

As mentioned previously, doggy style allows for amazing internal stimulation, which dudes totally love. However, even with the good G-spot stimulation, it may not be enough for the ladies to experience a climax. A lot of women need to be motivated externally in order for them to orgasm. Unfortunately, traditional doggy style does not involve much clitorial stimulation. Luckily though, that can be changed with the help of a few simple tricks. If you feel that you need your clitoris to be drawn attention to, in order to reach a peak, the simplest thing to do is ask your partner to do so, parallel to penetrating you.

Moreover, if you’re willing to do the job yourself, you may use your fingers, or turn to a vibrator. Using a vibratior, is guaranteed to give you a bright burst of emotions, as well as the chance to bring some divergence to your intimate lives!

To add on, doggy style is a phenomenal position for any kind of anal stimulation, thus feel free to have your partner play with your anus, by using their fingers or sex toys such as a dildo of any size, a butt plug, anal beads, or even a vibrator. For anal play, however, make sure to use plenty of lube to prevent any possible inconveniences.

Penetration is too deep

As much as your partner may love it, might not feel the best to you. Doggy style can feel amazing as much as it can be painful when you overdo it. In some cases, especially when traditional doggy style took place, women claimed that they experienced pain because it felt like their partners were going too deep. This tends to happen for a couple of different reasons, and can be easily avoided.

First and foremost, you could be experiencing the ache if you aren’t turned on to the max. That is because, when a female is aroused her vagina not only expands in width, it also increases in length, which may be the solution to your issue. Studies show that women need approximately twenty to thirty minutes of foreplay to be completely fired up and ready to go.

Therefore, do yourselves a favor and spend the necessary period of time on foreplay. Nevertheless, perhaps you were fully turned on yet still experienced pain. In that case, inform your partner about the discomfort that you’re experiencing, and ask them not to go as deep or as rough. As well, if your partner is thrusting more or less quickly, decreasing the speed of their thrusts may be the answer to the pain that you’re feeling, so ask them to go slower.