Simple Tips for Women to Make Your Solo Sex Great

how to masturbate for girls

Masturbation for guys has always been something normal, whereas when it comes to girls, some people even doubt it exists. In the last decade, the question of female masturbation has become an interesting matter. Now girls question this and look for the information on the right way to masturbate. It is a perfect way to improve your sexual life and become closer with your body. We at Gvibe focus on the pleasure that you can reach, we know how important it is to know how your body reacts to touches and where your sensitive spots are.

So we prepared this article as a guide to lead you through your first real masturbation experience, or the time when you finally realize what your body wants. Get comfortable and relax, we’re starting.

Do all women masturbate?

There have been several surveys and the results are quite surprising, the numbers depend on who you ask but they vary between 30 and 98% of women. Remember an old joke? 80 masturbate and accept it and 20 masturbate and lie they don’t.

Anyway, masturbation has a lot of benefits: it helps to have better focus on things in life, helps from insomnia, relieves stress, and many more.

How do we start?

I guess once everyone of us wanted to try it but didn’t know how to do this. In the beginning it is truly confusing, especially when you come across mysterious articles that just bombard you with words like fingering and removable shower heads (how the hell this is connected to masturbation some people might think). That’s why we prepared this guidance, so read on.

Is there a right way?

There are different ways or styles, you can use whichever you like most. You can rub, you can touch, push, anything that makes you feel good, and here are some tips:

Set up

Before you start playing with your body make sure nothing can distract your head. Lock the doors, turn on the flight mode on your phone, get the toys and things you want to use, don’t forget your lube and some music or videos (girls are also allowed to watch porn) to give the right vibes. The most important thing is to remember that the best orgasms have their beginning between your ears.

What is down there?

Between your legs there is a thing called vulva (just in case), there are two sets of lips: labia majora on the outside and labia minora more inside, but their sizes can vary, so don’t really think about the Latin names. Another thing, usually hidden between the lips, is the clitoris, which is totally or partially covered with a clitoral hood. By the way the clitoris and male penis both start out as a fetus, so the system is quite the same: they both are packed with nerve endings. The clitoris and the vagina are not separate things, they are connected inside and all the feelings that you get from penetration and touching your G-spot or from playing with the clitoris actually go through this whole system, certain parts of which can be more sensitive and delicate though. That’s why some women get more clitoral orgasms and some - vaginal ones (this one is rare). You need to find what makes you feel better and go for it.

Let’s do it

Ready? Now it’s time to start the action

Beginners can lie on the back with a pillow underneath. This position seems to be the most common. Try to sit on top of the pillow, rub yourself against an object, you can use the sides of your bed as well, better to leave your pants on if you want to try this method, to keep the mess away (also more friction is better, so pants are a good idea here).

Just your hands

Try to rub your clit with circular movements or from side to side, use two or four fingers, find your way around, you can touch it softer or harder, try to pinch or press. Rub it with two fingers placed on the sides of the clitoris. Don’t come too close to the clit itself if it feels like too much.

Fingers!

It’s time to get deeper. Try with one finger, curl it so you would touch the front wall of your vagina, try different movements, strike it, go shallow or deep, go in and out. Find what feels best. Try two fingers and find the most pleasurable spot.

Now when you’ve tried it all, combine: rub your clit with one hand and go inside with the fingers of the other hand. It might be difficult to control movements of both hands in the way you need, but it comes with practice. Do this until you feel the warmness spreading. You can finish it with rhythmical movements and experience an orgasm or stop right there, breath and come back to do the same stuff again after a couple of seconds, this way you will postpone an orgasm, which will make it stronger.

You can reach an orgasm with one hand as well, but it’s stronger when you touch several points simultaneously. And don’t forget the lube! ☺

What else

Sex toys do make a difference. It might be hard to stimulate the G-spot the right way or to stimulate several points simultaneously without any aid. The toys will do the work for you, or give you the feeling of fullness inside you, since using only your fingers inside might not be enough. Our Gjay can be your perfect lover along with the rest of our toys. Gvibe will touch the two main erogenous zones inside you at the same time. Everybody can find something special here. Check out Grabbit that can make you cum without even using fingers, or Gjack that can give you the feeling of multiple penetration. Want to feel some vibes? Gring is here for you. Do you want to force an orgasm really fast? Use Gbulb – a wand massager without cables and sticks.

And bonus point!

Water. The stream from your faucet when you’re lying in the bath with your clitoris right under it can make you feel something not experienced before. Use your shower (here it comes) with the removable head to do the same thing but guide the stream and move it up and down your vulva. Here you can play and come up with numerous ways to make an orgasm happen. But remember that this type of masturbation is quite addictive and very strong. So, some coaches don’t recommend it as it can be harmful for your intimacy as it makes you go harder on yourself because you might stop having orgasms with your hands only or during an act with your partner. But if you bring our Gvibe toys to shower with you then there’s nothing to worry about: they are completely waterproof and won’t ruin your orgasm future (we deliver only pleasure).

Take care and love yourself. It’s that simple.